Wait for the FOBs, the fresh off the boats. Honestly, most of the few men in my life, the few special men in my life, have been imports. I mean, I guess a lot of people are imports to New York City, but I got them fresh, as soon as they got here, before they got corrupted by all of the options and possibilities. When I met my boyfriend [music video director Barney Clay], he’d only been here for four months, five months, freshly moved from London. I scooped him right up. It is advice that I give, maybe not literally, but I’ve had the good fortune of meeting the fresh into New York City before they got the taste of the dating.