Date #3 

Round 3 with my USC frat boy happened the night before my trip home… we kept it low-key and picked a restaurant near my place for dinner.  The only flaw in him thus far is his lack of assertion.  For example, he asked me to go for dinner, then asked me to pick a place by me… easy enough, since I live in the village, but I asked what he was in the mood for… “anything”, he said. “Well, there’s thai, diner, falafel, mexican, etc… anything sound better than another?” -me. “All sound good” -him.  The thing is, I hate making decisions as well, so when you put 2 and 2 together, it doesn’t make for the best combination, and ultimately, all of the decisions have landed on me.  Maybe he’s scared of picking a bad place (though I’m so laid-back, it’d take a lot for me to judge it), but I’d rather he go out on a limb at least once.  I picked the first three dates’ venue, and tonight is number 4… from the conversation so far, it seems that I’ll once again be making the decision.  No, this isn’t a deal breaker, but I can see it getting annoying as things progress.  At any rate, I spoke to him a little while I was visiting home, and he asked me to do something tonight, so things are going really well.. updates on the the date tonight to come!

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